Day 1 - Sunday, May 18th

• 1:00 pm Welcome, congratulate participants on being proactive with

learning, distribute personal journals to applicants
distribute personal journals to applicants
At this point contract with the group: How will we take care of ourselves and how
do we take care of each other? We need to help each other, we need to not be
alone with our struggle.

• 1:30 pm Journal exercise #1: What do I need from this

workshop? Target your growth in dyads

• 1:45 pm Introduce partner to the group and report back what is not

confidential

• 1:55 pm Setting the Stage/Expectation of the Two Days:

We will address both the Structure of EFT and the Process of
Learning EFT – normalize the challenges of learning the
emotional language, slowing down in a world of fast answers

• 2:00 pm. Nuts and Bolts: Certification requirements: trainings, supervision,

Videotaping
- learning taping for yourself
- introducing to clients – do you believe it benefits them?
Discussion: How are you doing with taping? How are you
presenting it? The clients benefit, too!
Review ICEEFT list: “Your tape is not yet ready for certification
if….” Always opportunity to resubmit the videos - !
What needs to be shown in the videos?
Show video clip(s) that were approved for certification
Journal #2: Personal response to nuts and bolts, tracking internal
responses

• 3:30 pm What gets activated with idea and meaning of being certified?

Am I good enough, what does success mean? imposter?
show the George marine biologist snippet 

• 4:15 pm 15 minute break

• 4:30 pm ACES – Where do we each need to attend to our learning

(which may vary across cases)
Alliance, Conceptualization, Experiential, Self of Therapist
Journal exercise #3: Personal response to ACES – let them
check in with that: where have they each struggled the most
in that process? Where have they jumped in and where have
they avoided the process?

• 4:45 pm. Systemic vs. Intrapsychic – Avoiding find the bad guy?

• 5:00 pm 15 minute break

• 5:15 pm Our own attachment needs:

Identify/explore your biggest struggle/the most frustrating part as you try to get
emotional depth working with your couples
The parallel track of do I go deep with my relationships? Do my clients go deeper
than I go? Do I like it in the deep end of the pool, do I fight the deep end of the
pool

Video, followed by Journaling
and breakout discussion:
The messages I’ve received about interdependency and
vulnerability…..

• 6:00 pm Video – Experience, vs. Left Brain

Learning emotions through emotional experiencing
Grieving what wasn’t, finding opportunities to experience now

• 6:45-7pm Taking charge and being seen – journal and process

FEAR OF COMING FORWARD – BEING VISIBLE – BEING
SUCCESSFUL
What are the core beliefs/fears – am I good enough

Can we create a DEMON DIALOGUE re learning EFT

Day 2 - Monday, May 19th

• 9:00 am Your most difficult couple is HERE! Role play w/supportive other

• 10:30 am. 15 Break

• 10:45 am EFT Supervision

• 11:00 am Bringing Identity and Culture to the Heart of EFT – overview

• 11:30 am First Diversity Exercise: Introducing the Topic – divide paper

into 7 – breakout and discuss

• 12:30 pm Lunch

• 1:30 pm Cultural Humility –complexities and impact of identity and

culture

• 2:00 pm Video Example

• 2:30 pm Breakout: what comes up for you?

• 2:45-3pm What are you taking home? Next steps